In the New Year, Goal-Set and Goal-Get with Vision Boards!

Learn How to Create Vision Boards for New Year Success!

You may be a person who is skeptical about vision boards – maybe because you don’t see what all the fuss is about, especially if you have your goals in your head – I have heard that many of times. You may even be a person who always wanted to create one, but didn’t know how super easy it is and put it off year after year. Maybe you are a person who has seen the difference it can make in bringing  dreams into reality. Personally and professionally, I have seen the power in placing a vision on paper.

With the holidays in full swing, the last months of the year are ideal for creating vision boards. Aside from it being a great time to find craft items, your year is coming to a close and more and more clearly, you can see a future. But if you have not created one yet, you still have time before the new year to customize a visual that reflects a future you. Here are 6 easy steps you can take so when the ball drops and the clock strikes midnight, you can start the new year getting the goals you set!

1. Give yourself permission to GET!

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I have two full-time jobs: I teach and also serve as creative director for a lifestyle brand. Each job is demanding and causes for me to wear a lot of hats, effortlessly. As a jackie of many trades, it is easy to lose focus and energy and it is imperative to be focused to master any task, let alone a set of them. I am firm believer in vision boards because I have seen what they have done in my life. Law of Attraction is built upon the idea that regardless of age, race, or religious belief, we each have the ability to attract into our lives whatever we are focusing on.

Some dreams you catch early and some you carry on through time. Dreams are going to come in handy when crafting your board. Before gluing a thing, you have to know that your goals matter. Tapping into power, passion and purpose is an ongoing  journey.

It’s time to give life to your vision.

2. Get your Materials

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*Canvases come in all shapes and sizes – Posters are traditionally what is used, but bulletin boards and scrapbooks are also great foundations for your goals to be displayed.  

*A variety of magazines are the greatest muse

*Scissors to cut out your inspiration

*Writing utensils (markers – various colors, pens and pencils)

*Tape/glue sticks/liquid glue

*Unique stickers or 3D trinkets and embellishments (for scrapbooking)

3. Get in your Zone

 

Before you create your board, create a vibe. So get the playlist right for the occasion. Do you want to set a relaxing and tranquil tone? Upbeat and hyped? Do you work best on the floor. At a desk, table?

You need to get in your zone and that is different from person to person. Some feel the power of working alone while some are charged working in a group setting. Whatever floats your vision boarding boat –  set the tone for your workspace.

I knew vision boarding would be my flagship event for Eclectically You Experience. It empowers the individual in a way unique to other events. Over the past 3 years, I’ve thrown an annual vision board party and it has been such a fulfilling experience for me, but ultimately attendees. I have used vision boards in my classroom. I have gone to other schools to offer workshops. Before that, I would create them in the privacy of my home. Both experiences work!

So, whatever is best, do you! Invite friends over or go to the local gathering or set a time for you to get in some me time.  It doesn’t matter how or where you do it, just get it done!

4. Get Real

 

At the end of the year, one most likely full of ups and downs, oops and Aha moments, it’s nothing like seeing progress right before your eyes. People who use vision boards intentionally experience this firsthand. So take a moment to reflect on the past. Meditate in the present. This will help you project what you want to happen in the future.

What was my top achievement so far?

What am I learning this year?

What served as my biggest fear?

What are my distractions/mission blocks?

How do I feel about my progress?

5. Get in your Feelings

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It is now time to get clear about your vision of the future. Ask yourself,

How do I want to feel in various areas in my life?  

Vision boards should represent your feelings. You don’t want to spell out everything, like writing in a journal or diary but instead show rather than tell what you want to feel. Cover as much ground as possible.

Here are some categories to consider when envisioning the new year.

Write a note to self in the categories below about what you desire….Then find items that showcase these ideals. Cut pics, words, out of mags. Write or stick on inspirational quotes. Add artifacts that symbolize your desires.

Attitude Spiritual Mind Personal Growth
Career & Business $$$ Fitness Health
Relationships Family Fun & Social _____________

 

You want your board to be a quick visual reminder for you – fill it with images, illustrations, quotes and phrases that trigger something inside of you. You want this to ignite a fire in you or serve as a caution of what you want to avoid doing. Be intentional with everything you place down. It will be staring you in the face as the year goes on.

 

Now that you have gotten clear on what you want – honor your desires!

 

6. Get to work!

Here is how you use vision boards. Put them on display. Where is your board going to serve you the most? Put it there. Let it not be in vain that you have acknowledged your vision –  now like a plant, nurture it. You have planted a seed, so pour into it, water it regularly, give it light and watch it grow.

With application, in no time your vision board will be proof of progress!

Work out your vision!

 

***Although our boards are for us and are personal messages to ourselves, I always encourage guests at the end of each vision board event I’ve hosted to share one of the items on the board. With a friend or a loved one, share one of the goals – take it a step further – ask someone to hold you accountable. Yes, accountable. Find  someone who will check on your progress in an area you know that if you kept quiet, you will probably not do. Sometimes putting ourselves out there helps us accomplish the goal. Words and actions are a powerful combination. Accountability partners are awesome in a process of progress. Be someone’s accountability partner!

So cheers to a year of you accomplishing your goals!

Have an awesome new year!

Tap into your #power #passion #purpose

 

Can’t wait to hear your thoughts on the subject!

Share your vision board or progress with the #eclecticallyyouexperience hashtag on Instagram and Facebook!

 

Eclectically You Experience, LLC

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Let’s define, plan and design something #eclecticallyyou!

Happy #visionvacay !

 

Eclectically,

Micole

www.eclecticallyyou.com

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Seasons Change: 5 Ways to Welcome a Fall that Flatters You!

A new season is sweeping us up!…September is special – it is where we are forced to say, see you later summer. While entering fall, it becomes apparent that this is a season for adjusting, for change. Here are 5 ways to embrace your best Fall! 1. Declutter…Daily My struggle: I am a pack-rat. I collect things. … Continue reading “Seasons Change: 5 Ways to Welcome a Fall that Flatters You!”

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A new season is sweeping us up!…September is special – it is where we are forced to say, see you later summer. While entering fall, it becomes apparent that this is a season for adjusting, for change.

Here are 5 ways to embrace your best Fall!

1. Declutter…Daily

My struggle: I am a pack-rat. I collect things. I have had the hardest time letting go, but it is needed for growth. For me, this is easier said than done, but rewarding. Yep, I know “daily” sounds tedious, but #decluttering in all areas of life is a great practice and not just a spring thing.  Just like there is a cycle of life, there has got to be order in your temple (and nothing does it like taking stock and inventory on a regular basis.)

Getting rid of stuff and thoughts that no longer serve a present purpose in your life in order to clear out space or to make room for the new, can be the greatest magic trick.

2. Keep your secret ingredient, secret.

I 💛 #FridayNightLights ! #stepintoit #TGIF #litforlife  #staytuned

Devices. When we are left to our own, we can either make a mess or our own recipe for success. It used to be that your bank account could tell a lot about you, but now devices do tell. Use social media, but don’t let it use you. This season, monitor…your own usage. How often are you looking at a screen? What are you sharing? At the end of the day, keep time for personal development, loved ones who are in the flesh and some precious and not so precious details for self care purposes so you can shine on and off screen.

3. Embrace your truth by treating your successes and struggles equally.

#tipTuesday -  as a woman who is single, I often get asked, “how do you manage it all???” - but I think - One life - that’s what we ALL get. The MOST of it is what we got to make. We are each made to win. In fact, I know I have a lot to carry, but I've always admired those who have even more to manage than I do - like those who are married, have kids...those who are single parents. I salute. With that, we find this truth - regardless of our duties, Life is such a balancing act! And as we walk this thin line, we got to to do what we got to do when it comes to factoring in who and what is important to us in order to not tip the scale. I’m glad I like a good challenge -  because every day when managing myself, a full time job and a new small business, that’s what I’m up for. And don’t forget about self care. That’s high on the list of priorities along with prayer time and meditation. Got to factor that in for everything else to even have a CHANCE at working out. Then some days, it’s like wait- #adulting just weighed me down; it’s like tipping the scale...and before handling life’s responsibilities and serving others - just got to stop - make time to press play, turn up #spotify and dance like nobody’s watching! That’s always fun and a good hearty laugh! People often wonder how to live their #eclecticallyyouexperience - just remember - we all have to be true to self on our unique journey in regards to what we can carry. Life is an ongoing balancing act...and be grateful for coordination. #confessionsofabachelorette #Eclectically , #micolewilliams #growth #grace #GO #Glow #GodsGotYouCovered

I’m glad I like a good challenge – because every day when managing myself, a full time job and a new small business, that’s what I’m up for. But some days, it’s like wait- #adulting just weighed me down; it’s like tipping the scale…and before handling life’s responsibilities and serving others – just got to stop – make time to press play, turn up #spotify and dance like nobody’s watching! That’s always fun and a good hearty laugh!

Being single, I often get asked, “how do you manage it all???” – but I think – One life – that’s what we ALL get. The MOST of it is what we got to make. We are each made to win. In fact, I know I have a lot to carry, but I’ve always admired those who have even more to manage than I do – like those who are married, have kids…those who are single parents. I salute.

With that, we find this truth – regardless of our duties, life is such a balancing act! And as we walk this thin line, in order to not tip the scale, we gotta to do what we gotta do when it comes to factoring in who and what is important to us. Life is an ongoing balancing act…and be grateful for coordination. #growth #grace #GO #Glow

4.  Wait for peace

I love to plan, but I also have learned over the years the significance of trusting in God’s plan and His perfect timing. It’s not easy, that’s for sure, especially if you are like me and patience is virtue you have had to work on. But in taking it step by step, even if the pace feels uncomfortably slow, and by taking it day by day, even if you are hyped about what you see ahead...we are at an advantageous vantage point- we are able to tune in and tap into divine details we often miss if we are whizzing by, doing our own thing. I have found peace to be what I HAVE to live for - Not my #plans. Sometimes it’s best to just WAIT until you have peace - wait for the signals to move up or move down...or just stay put until you know HOW to move...so today, stop and see the beauty in #waiting. Have an awesome Wednesday! #confessionsofaplanner #Eclectically , #micolewilliams of #eclecticallyyouexperience ... . . .  #planner #pace #clocks #schedule #steps #timing #Godstime

I love to plan, but I also have learned over the years the significance of trusting in God’s plan and His perfect timing. It’s not easy, that’s for sure, especially if you are like me and patience is virtue you have had to work on. But in taking it step by step, even if the pace feels uncomfortably slow, and by taking it day-by-day, even if you are hyped about what you see ahead…we are at an advantageous vantage point- we are able to tune in and tap into divine details we often miss if we are whizzing by, doing our own thing. I have found peace to be what I HAVE to live for – Not my #plans. Sometimes it’s best to just WAIT until you have peace – wait for the signals to move up or move down…or just stay put until you know HOW to move…so this season, stop and see the beauty in #waiting.

5. Adopt a “What if?” Mindset

#MondayMotivation — It’s funny how old friends can reveal things about you you never knew. She said in the 7th grade, I used to always ask questions, especially the ones that started off with “what if...” Well - I’m returning to that stem. This is a “what if?” season. Sometimes, because WE limit ourselves, we forget that possibilities, with faith and application, are endless. But this Monday, all that changes...even if it’s 5 minutes- work in your daily dose of daydreaming and don’t be afraid of the questions that come to mind. Too often we put more weight on getting answers, BUT the power is in the question. Here’s to endless possibilities...get your “what if’s” on. #confessionsofadreamer #eclecticallyyouexperience #eclectically , #micolewilliams #thingsthatmakeyougohmmm #whatif #therestofthisyearwillbethebestofthisyear #tobeornottobe #thatisthequestion #dreamers #daydream  #dreamersdo #unapologetically #dreamon !!!!!

It’s funny how old friends can reveal things about you you never knew. She said in the 7th grade, I used to always ask questions, especially the ones that started off with “what if…” Well – I’m returning to that stem. This is a “what if?” season. Sometimes, because WE limit ourselves, we forget that possibilities, with faith and application, are endless. But this season all that changes…even if it’s 5 minutes- work in your daily dose of daydreaming and don’t be afraid of the questions that come to mind. Too often we put more weight on getting answers, BUT the power is in the question. Here’s to endless possibilities…get your “what if’s” on and get your vision board ready – The New Year will be here before we know it! The rest of this year will be the best of this year! Here’s to fall favor! – MW

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People often wonder how to live their #eclecticallyyouexperience – just remember – we all have to be true to self on our unique journey.

Create your life while living out your passion one day at a time. Let us know what changes you are  #planning to make.

Eclectically You Experience – Vision Board Night Recap

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5.19.18 @Salento Bistro in Houston, TX:

The month of May is FULL of celebrations! One hit close to home – with a “The Rest of This Year Will be the Best of This Year” themed-party, I hosted a part Client Appreciation Dinner and part Vision Board Night Recap filled with good vibes, good times and good memories!

From weddings, to retirement parties, launches, and book events, I love making occasions, special. Hi, I am Micole. Serving as Creative Director has allowed me to incorporate so much of the things I am passionate about when helping cater to the client’s style. This past year, building and growing a lifestyle brand has been an awesome experience. Based in Houston, Texas, Eclectically You Experience, LLC, a lit for life company, specializes in making one’s print, event and DIY projects, a signature experience.

Aside from working with clients, EYE has two events open to the public. Whether it is our monthly book club meet-up that travels around the city to different eateries for breakfast, or our Annual Vision Board Night, it is tailored to the individuals involved – what makes them special.

So , this particular event was personal. Well into 2018, at a midway point,  I wanted to facilitate a check-in with our goals and each other. I so enjoyed  having an intimate opportunity to dine, meditate and share dream testimonies while receiving insight for this eclectically you experience!

Check out the photos and what guests had to say!

Photos by Anna Egbu

“I really enjoyed the Vision Board Night. I brought my vision board and I was able to take stock and plan for the rest of the year. The conversation was also surprisingly real, deep and enlightening. Awesome!” – Abby Kotun

“it was a very insightful and laid-back atmosphere!” – Guest

 

“This was more than a vision board party! It was an intimate safe space for sharing insight and networking.” – Bridgett from (S. Charles Public Relations)

“I take pleasure in learning from others; the Vision Board Night event taught me how to graciously welcome warmth from new friends.” N. Bentley

“The event was inspirational, empowering and motivating…I can’t wait for the next.” – Shuntia Barnes

For more info, visit www.eclecticallyyou.com Show EYE some social media love on Instagram ! The Journey continues!

Rose Gold Romance – 35 Love Notes…To Self

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Daily Affirmations

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Thanks for making our original post a success. “35 Love Notes to Self”  affirmations that originally premiered on this blog are NOW available in a new purse-size book coming March 2023. ORDER on http://www.eclecticallyyou.com!

#selflove is #selfcare and it is essential; these notes say how I owe it to myself to live life like it’s #rosegolden !

As February, a month of love, comes to a close, let the love continue! Too often, our busy schedules push us to underestimate me time. Make some time to nurture the relationship within. For each day of March and a few for April, you will find a #selflove #selfcare affirmation!  Thanks for stopping by and let’s make this month #rosegolden! 


The Power of Affirmations

Over the years, I knew many people who were fans of affirmations. These positive thoughts are to be spoken verbally to ourselves and out into the universe. They are strategically written in present tense to help initiate change in your thought life and ultimately, your life. I had always been into writing New Year’s resolutions in the form of wishes. I was always a fan of writing goals and prayers during different seasons, but I never really got into affirmations. At 35, a new reality is being formed. After surviving many storms and overcoming many challenges, I still have to remind myself to affirm myself in order to continue to move forward. I have to stop and take care of myself and acknowledge what hardships I have had and how these hardships may shake things up, but never my foundation. This is a new season in my life where there is a need to redefine and rewire the brain…break negative thought patterns, speak many things into existence…and keep moving forward no matter what.

Coming from the Latin word affirmare meaning “to make firm, steady, strengthen”, affirmations are for many a proven way to rethink and act on a better life.  This is a great time to try something new. So I wrote 35 affirmations to ponder on, speak on and act on. Feel free to use them as well. MW


35 Affirmations of

#selflove #selfcare

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Note to Self:

Day 1

I breathe in blessings. I breathe out burdens.

A safe place is created when I live simply, but deeply.

I am balanced and steady.

 


…And the #EclecticallyYouExperience continues.

These past 35 days,

thanks for joining us!

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